What’s Meant to Be Yours Will Never Leave

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At this moment, I finally could say to myself that I’m genuinely happy with my life and this kind of feeling is the biggest achievement for me so far.

Similar to you, I’ve been through a lot of struggles and battles in life and being happy with life has nothing to do with the absence of struggles. My life is still full of shit, challenges, setbacks, and changes; but I’m truly happy at the same time.

This contradiction was confusing for me at first, but I could make sense all of it once I traced back to what I’ve done for these past months. This time, I won’t tell you about being grateful even though it is one of the keys to making you happy.

As I traced back, I realized that I could be this happy about my life because I left the things which weren’t meant to be mine and be mindfully let it all go the way it supposed to be.

A year ago, I was disappointed by life many times. I was being selfless and I worked too hard for the things that, actually, didn’t matter for my happiness that much. Last year was full of disappointments and broken trusts.

I tried to fix everything and pull myself together, but life didn’t get any better. Until one moment, I decided to stop as I realized one thing:

If life was not giving me the things which I’ve put my best effort into, then those things weren’t meant to be mine; maybe, I deserve better than all of those things that were supposed to be gone.

I started to let my life unfold by itself. It wasn’t easy at first, but I began to lower my expectations toward life as I tried my best to accept the reality and the disappointments as well.

I knew I was broken here and there, but I’ve decided to make some huge decisions all at once; I quit my job and left the work environment that emotionally abused my well-being.

It was difficult to stand tall once again as it was hard for me to trust people once again, but surprisingly, I did. After that difficult turning point, I started to cut some toxic people out of my life and I started to pursue the things which I really love instead of following those society’s success standards.

Slowly but surely, I tried to open myself to the things which life has to offer without me forcing it to happen. Surprisingly, I now have a job in a company that gives me the freedom to do what I love, I meet countless inspiring and generous people along the way, and I found someone new to love again.

You see, sometimes when you try to let everything happen the way it is, the universe will show you the best way.

Most of the time, we are too obsessed with getting the things that we once thought were ideal and good for us, while actually, maybe all of those things are bad for our lives.

Forcing the things that were never meant to be yours will only make you hurt. You need to have faith that every loss will lead you to other things that are better for you.

Not to mention that you don’t have to be worried about those who left you behind because those who truly love you will always stay without being asked.

At the end of the day, you need to always remember that what’s meant to be yours will never pass you by. 


Originally published at Thought Catalog
Photo by Oleg Ivanov on Unsplash

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2 Replies to “What’s Meant to Be Yours Will Never Leave”

  1. So cool. I also just quit my job with the same reason like yours. I know that after this point i will still facing depresion, or maybe some guilty feelings. But really, in the same time i feel very fulfillment to fully owning my self again. And really excited about how life will take me after this point

    1. Glad that you feel what I feel as we went through the same journey. Indeed, we are growing through this experience. By the way, I’d love to hear more about your story! Do you mind to write it down about what happened and how you have healed through that experience? Then, you can always submit your story to us and we can publish it, so others can learn from you too 🙂

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